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Second Chances
Back in undergrad, I dated here and there but didn't have a huge deal of success. Anyway, now that I am older some of the same women from back then that either passed me over or dated me for a second and then broke it off for whatever reason are all in my grill now. Personally, my attitude is if I wasn't good enough for you back then, I don't see what is so great about me now.
Most of my female friends come with all kinds of excuses about the situation ("They were young back then", "They may have wanted something different back then and want a good man now", etc.). Aside from being a few years older, I haven't changed a great deal since undergrad. My appearance and overall personality are pretty much the same. Hell, I really don't even dress or carry myself any differently than I did back then. Nonetheless, I am supposed to just go along with this crap. I have even been accused of being "bitter" because of this philosophy.
What do you all think about the situation?
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