Funny how that happens!
A lot of misconceptions just need a little nudging
The horrible unknows can make people afraid. If it is finances, usually that can be worked out.
As one gets older and finds that not only did you find a lot of new friends, Brothers but if you hang in and keep in touch, you will still be friends.
None of my H S Buddys ever became Greek and most did not attend college.
One of my best Buddys and I keep in touch a lot!