As it was pointed out when this happened to me....isn't publicly chastising a sister of your own organization also being a horrible representation of your soroity....I mean PNM Pam might read it and say: "Hey, I don't think I want to be a SKEPi, if their memebers are acting like that against eachother in public...I wonder what they're like when no one's watching..."
And as for privately...I feel that my sisters do have the right to privately express concerns about my behavior on a national public forum such as this, and I have the resposibility to listen...but then in turn, I also have the right and they the responsibility of expressing/listening to my point of view (I'm an individual, not only a SKEPi...)
PS....Thank you SKEPi for always being a good sport of us using your letters in every trashy situation....