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I agree with Munchkin....I can't decide on an arbitrary number. My step-father has been married four times....his first wife died, and he divorced his second and third wife, and has been married to my Mom for almost 13 years now. I think he needs to work out some of his issues, however (he brings up things that his previous wives did and holds my mom accountable/accuses her of doing the same things), which I wouldn't get into.

Also, I think it depends on the age of the person considering getting married to someone who's previously been married. I know that at my age (24), I wouldn't want to be marrying someone who's been married 3-4 times already, but for a 35-year old, it may be a different situation.