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Originally posted by Munchkin03
I wouldn't worry about it. As college goes on, either you'll remain friends or you won't. All of my best friends are non-Greek.
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I agree. All but two of my close friends are non-Greek. (some of the ones that were non-Greek had debated starting their own local... but no one really wanted to commit the time and energy to that).
If you're asking him to lay off the comments, and he's not, you have two options-- ignore him and figure he's got his own issues, or start distancing yourself and figure he's got his own issues. From the comments you're giving, I'd argue he's got homophobic issues more than greek organization ones, and they're misfounded. Maybe he's getting comments from other friends (or relatives) that reflect this change, and he's projecting on you because you happen to be interested in joining a GLO.
Either way, friendships change in college... and it's not worth the energy to keep being friends with those who refuse to show common courtesy in respecting your interests as your own without critiquing them.
~ Mel.