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Originally posted by OtterXO
It may be that he is jealous that you are moving on and making new friends before him. Not necessarily that he is jealous of greek life (although that may be it too) but that he's not sure he's going to be hanging out with you once you move into the house. He's probably nervous about starting college-like everyone else-and maybe was counting on you to be his buddy at school. He's scared that you are going to hang out only with members of the fraternity so his way of dealing with the situation is to talk negatively about fraternities-sort of a defense mechanism.
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I think there's a great deal of insight in what OtterXO says. The things he's saying are about
him, not you. Everything will work out the way it's supposed to, and I wouldn't be a bit surprised if one day down the line he ends up in a fraternity, too.