Such wise alums we have on here
I also suggest joining an alum association for your GLO or starting one if it doesn't exist in your area. I did that and I am having so much fun, have made some terrific friends in a city where I didn't know too many people and it has kept ties to my past and is creating a fun future.
Another "suggestion" is don't feel pressure to "be" in a certain place in your career, life, etc. by a certain age. Take life as it comes. I know so many people like this (and I admit, I am guilty sometimes too) and life is just so much funner when you don't have a timeline. Goals are great, but don't be like "ohmigod, I am gonna be 30 in 2 years and I am not married". Besides most people who have what you want will be envious of YOU that they can't be in your shoes
You know how many of my married friends say they wish they could still be single and carefree like me?
Oh, this is a "general" post and not aimed at the threader in particular, as I don't know where you are in your life right now anyways
I agree with the credit card suggestion. It took me a long time to pay off my debts from college credit cards and I should have listened to my mom when she said "You don't need a credit card right now".
So yeah, that leads to my next advice which has already been mentioned but is priceless: listen to your parents. They are very wise. Also seek out a mentor--someone you look up to and admire, especially if they are in your field. They are so valuable in helping you in your journey. Happy mid-week everyone