I also have this problem, one of my good friends rushed my house with me all the way up till we had only one week left of our pledging period and then dropped, supposidly because of his grades. Now everytime I mention I'm doing this our that with the Sigma Nu he instantly says "oh spending allof your time with the CULT". My roomates and many of my friends on my floor this year were also GDI's and they would say things such as " getting butt raped by your frat bro's and things such as that. I think my one roomate was jealous because he tried to get into DCHI and didn't get a bid. I think your friend might also be angry because he doesn't get to hang out with you as much as before. If your fraternity is anything like mine you spend alot of time preparing for homecoming and greek week so that could also be a reason.
All I can say is good luck...
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