[AlphaGamDiva]

no, i read that and thought about it before i responded.......we just disagree as to what makes someone truly "selfish," and the difference btwn that and just doing something you want to do. being selfish means you only think about yourself...thinking way more of what you want than someone else. being a mother is the complete opposite of that. yeah, you wanted the child, but i don't think that makes you selfish. it means you're willing to love and care for another human being......which is NOT selfish.

just b/c i want some ice cream doesn't make me selfish, does it?


ETA: co-sign that writing "selfish" so many times is like a really bad tongue-twister