[AlphaXiGirl]

Just recently, my husband and I both read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

It's really good and was very informative for both of us.

I had never thought about the different ways that people "speak" love before this. It does explain why some girls just love a phone call, flowers or a card and others would prefer a back rub, doing the laundry, or a nice Sunday drive up the parkway. And it applies to men as well.

In addition, it addresses the "in love" vs. "love" thing.

I'd recommend it to anyone asking.