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The guy that I was talking to for 2 months (now we're just friends) used to be a user. I guess when I met him 4 years ago, he was using. Actually he told me he had been using since he was like 18 or something (he's 27 now). He did cocaine, smoked weed, extacy, acid. The cutting point for him is when he was high and drunk one night and his fiance (ex now), and then got pulled over and caught with extacy. Now he's undergoing tons of court dates. He's been clean since mid-March and goes to NA meetings.
If he was using when we were talking, it wouldn't bother me. As long as it's not around me (I don't mind marijuana), and it's not endangering my safety or our relationship. Honestly, I'd rather be with someone who was doin drugs then someone who was going out every nite getting drunk. But that's just me.
If he quit, chances are he quit for a good reason. Give the guy a chance... everyone deserves a second chance. Look at my friend... clean for a few months, goes to church, got a job (which yeah will be screwed up if he is convicted of the felony charge for the extacy), finished college and got a business degree at a good university, and regularly attends NA meetings.
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