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I would be interested in why he started (besides just going wild) AND why he stopped the drugs.
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Not sure why he started it. I think he just started going to raves and tried it out and continued to use it. He stopped b/c he mom found out and told his grandma, and it just about broke his grandmothers heart.
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I think that by calling him an "ex-druggie" you've really already made up your mind that he's not up to your standards. Personally, I'd rather date someone who has experimented with drugs if he wanted to rather than the uptight guy who has never done anything
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Its not that he's not up to my standards. And your right I would much rather date someone who has experiment rather than someone uptight. However, what he did was a little more than experiement.
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Many times when people have sex on xtc, they feel weird side effects for a long time after. For some people the sexual feelings are SO good that nothing ever compares to it again. I actually have a male friend who has had to undergo psychological counseling and some kind of drug therapy because his sexual experiences on X interfered with his "real" relationships later in life. He was unable to have any kind of fulfilling sexual relationship sober.
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Thats interesting. I'd never heard that (but then again, i don't know crap about X). I guess I need to sit down and talk with him about all this stuff and how it may possibly affect our future.
Other than the drug use in the past, he is a great guy. Super close with his family, he sees his nieces and nephews everyday and talks about them constantly and how much he loves them. He has a steady job and is going back to college when he gets money save up.