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hey, i say go with your gut on this one. i went on a date with a guy on wed nite who told me a lot of stories involving what he was probably trying to sell to me as recreational drug use. my gut was telling me that he may not be my choice of a guy to date and i really didn't believe everything he had to say. i hung out with someone who knows him last night and he said he has always been known as a major coke head and for doing wild and crazy stuff. my friend told me to do what i wanted because there always "is a chance" that some things about people are embellished, however he did say this guy had a major reputation and he would not be good for me. people can do whatever they want with their life and i have nothing against people who get drunk or high every once in awhile but when it makes you do things that could put your life or others lives at risk (mainly mine) that is a different story.
people can change and we shouldn't judge people from what they've done in their past but if you are having doubts, and there are things you couldn't handle about someone that they have done in their past, i wouldn't get involved. the relationship is already doomed from the start if you can't handle things about the person.
good luck!!!!
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