we have something similar to what you are talking about. its more of a list of 6 things that the bigs have to do with the littles, and the littles are given a simliar list.
i'll see if i can dig mine up somewhere, but please be patient. half my stuff is in boxes from school still, and the other half of my stuff is in the process of being packed in boxes cause my parents are moving.
i'm lucky i know where my bed is at this point!
