I don't know if I agree or disagree but I do have a story to tell related to this issue. One of my sorority sister's was a bridesmaid in another sister's wedding. They held the bachelorette party at a place in Long Island (it is slipping my mind now the name) where they do all-male revue, but I am sure those of you living in the area know the name. In any event, my sister had one glass of wine and became so sick, dizzy and passed out in the bathroom. They had to take her home. They think someone slipped something in her drink. I just want everyone to be aware of this. Part of the draw at this particular place is that you are given passes to go to nearby clubs and bars after the show at the strip club. My sisters think that one of the bartenders or dancers did this thinking she would be an easy target at one of the clubs after the show. Those places are so ridiculously over-priced anyways. I went to this place once that my sister got the stuff put in her drink. It was like close to $200 or something crazy like that for me alone for the night by the time you pay for favors, drinks, food and tips. It's not much better getting a regular stripper. I did that once for another sister when I was her maid of honor. Never again. First of all, he got lost and kept calling my cell-phone which totally gave away the surprise. He was late and it ended up costing me again another $200.00. One of the bridesmaid's was supposed to go in on it with me that night but "conveniently" forgot her checkbook. Everytime after that she "forgot" her checkbook and her money but that is another story. I would never want my friends to get me a stripper if and when the time comes that I get married. Right now I am perfectly happy being in the GC singles club. When do you ladies want to get together to haze the frat boys LOL?
