All of your advice has been so helpful! I have talked to my friends and they have really helped me out with some of the answers. I just didn't know whether or not they could talk about it since the school year is starting (and I would have hated to get them in trouble just to help me!!!)
Hearing your suggestions and stories has been great though and I really appreciate it! Once rush starts I probably will not talk about it until afterwards. I wouldn't say anything bad about any of the groups, because I know girls in almost all of them and they are all great, but I would hate for something to be taken wrong or any number of things. So I will keep things vague but I really appreciate the advice. I have noticed that although there are some differences, the majority of people have the same experience and advice about their rush
