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Originally posted by polarpi
Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't ALL the PNM's receive a preference letter, suwhitestl? That's what happened in our chapter, no matter what. We spent the hours finishing up our preference party decorations also deciding who was preffing each PNM, and then they were responsible in that time for writing their PNM the preference letter.
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Sorry I should proof my posts to ensure clarity but with finals coming up its the last thing on my mind.
What I was implying is not that some PNMs did not receive poems or letters at pref night, but sometimes more effort is put into some letters/poems more than others (ie like polarpi'd CA connection, being on the same sports team, etc ). There are instances when the chapter wants PNM A more than PNM B so PNM A might get more attention. If the poems are carbon copies then there is no problem but in such cases when they are not exact copies, someone might feel like their poem wasnt as good as someone else's and think well if the chapter wanted me that badly my poem would have been cool too. That's when problems arise.