no...i do not think it is realistic...i am currently celibate and not dating...because i have found that the two more often than not do not go hand-in-hand...unless you are really in control of your sexual desires i would not even go there...if you know that both you and the man you are dating are able to control yourselfs...really...not just claim you can...then i don't see a problem...i have never been in the opposite situation...a man wanting to be celibate and me not

but i would respect that or move on if i felt i couldn't wait...not pressure him...i would probably think that he didn't like women though because even gay men get THAT look when they encounter me so...i dunno
[This message has been edited by CelestialBlu1 (edited June 27, 2001).]