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Originally posted by HBADPi
Yes I agree, some FR have skit night for example and others dont.
THAT is called a recruitment infraction. I don't care what campus you are on but if you are a NPC sorority or an IFC fraternity, its a serious deal and I have seen national offices of fraternities and sororities getting involved because of it.
This is not a matter of agreeing, disagreeing or of someone's opinion, its about guidelines that Panhel sets for a reason. If we bend guidlines Panhel sets, hell let's start bending rules ADPi sets. Believe me, as a former FR chair, FR is by no means black and white but the point is tring to keep it the same for all parties involved.
I think writing the letters and taking them back at the end of parities is a great solution as well as having Panhel read them. suwhitestl we used sisterhood poems, either written by the sister or previously written poems (theres a thread somewhere). After reading the poems, the sisters would turn to the girls and just tell them how happy they were to have met them, wish them best of luck in deciding, etc etc. So basically we got the personalization in there but if the girls came back on bid day and compared letters, they all only got some type of poem.
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Yes, it may be a recruitment infraction, but my point was that not every campus is the same when it comes to rules. Obviously your campus was and obviously this campus isn't. I don't condone the bending of the rules, but it is done, all the time. That was my point.