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Originally posted by ASUADPi
Unfortunately FR varies from campus to campus. Yes, all campuses should probably be using the same "rules and quidelines" but some Panhell's are either going to be incredibly strict and enforcing all of them and others are going to be a bit more "lax" because of "tradition".
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Yes I agree, some FR have skit night for example and others dont.
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People are human, with instincts, wants and needs and we find ways around the rules to benefit ourselves.
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THAT is called a recruitment infraction. I don't care what campus you are on but if you are a NPC sorority or an IFC fraternity, its a serious deal and I have seen national offices of fraternities and sororities getting involved because of it.
This is not a matter of agreeing, disagreeing or of someone's opinion, its about guidelines that Panhel sets for a reason. If we bend guidlines Panhel sets, hell let's start bending rules ADPi sets. Believe me, as a former FR chair, FR is by no means black and white but the point is tring to keep it the same for all parties involved.
I think writing the letters and taking them back at the end of parities is a great solution as well as having Panhel read them. suwhitestl we used sisterhood poems, either written by the sister or previously written poems (theres a thread somewhere). After reading the poems, the sisters would turn to the girls and just tell them how happy they were to have met them, wish them best of luck in deciding, etc etc. So basically we got the personalization in there but if the girls came back on bid day and compared letters, they all only got some type of poem.