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They do take the letters back before the event ends. Then give them again on Bid day. I don't think most girls share their letters with anyone else. If they did they would find they are very similar and not nearly as special as they made them feel on preference day.
Panhellenic did try and deal with this issue this Spring. 3 of the 5 chapters use the letters including ADPi and so the vote was obvious. I am not sure why they decided to vote on it and not just take the position that it is one more part of the no-frills policy that we need to get on board with. We have eliminated at least a frill a year to get closer to the NPC intended FR. And this is the first time the vote was to keep one of the forbidden!
Panhel has asked to read all the letters after preference this year and we have made a commitment to review all letters before preference to avoid any unintended bid promising.
The women have been given sample letters before (which helps alot of women since this can be a hard letter to write) - but each want to put their own things in there which makes their recruitment advisor (yours truly) ver nervous!
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