To JM: I don't know why you felt the need to look me up. There needs to be no clarification between us, you are getting married...it's really clear to me. I wish I hadn't found out by the friggin' newspaper, but I'm so over it. I will not ease your guilty conscience...and anyway, if you felt so bad about what happened, why did you wait like 5-6 months to apologize? Save your breath...I'm cool. I'm not a vindictive type of person, so I won't blow your spot up...you know you were wrong then...and that's all that matters.

<----sincere smile! I hope you are reading this!!!! If you are...read my new signature while you are at it!