lol Thanks for all the replies and some good advice.
I will say this, whoever said they dont blame men for looking somewhere else, I dont even get started on how wrong you are and how rude that was.
As for the sex, that sure isnt lacking AT ALL... We may have been together for 7 years and married for one year, but we are still like we met in that aspect. Lets just say that is not a problem at all in creativity and times in a week lol.
I think someone said this, but I think its jsut a guy does things for a girl to get her to be with him and he does the romance thing and the mushy stuff all the time and all of that, but after you are with him for so long, he doesnt think he needs to do that as much cause he has you now. I think I lost sight of that cause I never had long term relationships before my hubby, so I was always in the first stages of it and the guys I dated we all mushy then.
I need to just remember he married me and loves me so just cause I dont get mushy poems or love letters anymore, it doesnt change how he feels about me. The other night we talked about it and he said Shan, I dont have time to go out and get you cards and flowers, I leave work and come straight home so I can spend as much time with you as I can. I thought that was very sweet and very true. Id rather him be home with me then out shopping for cards. Plus he does still have his moments where I get cards and flowers. I need to realize just as our relationship has grown and matured so has the romance and its just as sweet and caring that he calls me everday from work to tell me he loves and misses me.
