Hello Sorors & Sisterfriends!
I had to get in on this topic.
First of all to give you some names: I don't watch Andromedia (?) but I think you are referring to Keith Hamilton Cobb (he has locks right) who some of you may remember as Noah from All My Children back in the early '90's. The guy from Janet Jackson's video is Gary Dourdan (?) not sure if I spelled his name right. He played on A Different World as Shazza (Freddie's boyfriend), Lem's cousin in the Soul Food series...and is now on some show on CBS. He cut his locks.
As for me...I would have to choose Khalil Kain
(not sure if I spelled his name right either) formerly of Juice...Regine's boyfriend Keith on Living Single...Love Jones and an episode of Moesha.
Whew...I'm done!