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Old 06-01-2004, 07:33 PM
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Originally posted by James
Infatuation is the truest form of love. ITs unconditional and overpowering.

But anyway, they say that the most successful couples never stop feeling that initial infatuation.

If you lose it. Move on.
I don't agree with this at all. I am one half of a successfully married couple and when you're dealing with homework; housework; broken cars; dirty dishes; teacher conferences; busted heads; dirty underwear; stinking feet; past due bills; etc, the last thing you feel when you look at your mate is "infatuation". Mostly you feel, overwhelmed; annoyed; and like you want a minute to yourself.

After while, loving another person and staying in love with another person becomes a choice. I choose everyday to love my husband, sometime because of something he did 5 years ago. But it is a choice.

If you choose to "move on", because you're not feeling the initial infatuation, you'll never have a long term relationship...let alone a successful marriage. .
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