I hear all of you but I get upset because I am inbetween sizes used to be 16 but got down to a fourteen. Started going back to the gym because I am going to Cancun next week and can almost fit my big butt into a 12 but not quite and then when I try on the 14 it doesn't fir right.
Another thing is that we all have a best friend that we can talk to and if you do then I don't understand why you would let your best friend go outside in an outfit that does not flatter her. Whether she is big or small because I have seen many a women/ladies/girls where spandex. This goes for the big ones as well as the small ones or the in-between ones like me.
Please Ladies, do your friend a favor and do not let her walk down the street looking crazy.
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