Calm down GiggyZ. Where did all of these "hostilities" come from?
Where were you shopping? I've seen you in person and I believe you should have no problem finding your size. Have you tried mail-order (Chadwicks of Boston for example)? Fret not, you are alright and your perfect fitting clothing is out there.....somewhere.
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Sweet Deliverance's PHI-losophy:
"What you do or do not do today determines what you can or cannot do tomorrow."