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**Clutching my pearls as I attempt to add to an improper conversation**

Well, I get Starang's point. The issue for a lot of men is not whether or not their woman is experienced or has sex on the first date. The issue is whether or not the whole campus or town KNOWS about it. They don't want to know that all of their boys and half the campus/town have hit it. Most men and their egos cannot handle that. It's fine if you do your thing, just practice a little discretion. Everyone does not need to know your business.