See we alumnae wannabes get into trouble with this, as well. We want the same bonding, but know we won't get as much of it. I'm not going to get my @$$ kicked literally, but I welcome challenges that build teamwork and solidarity and mutual love and support.
So, if y'all can go to your respective orgs and come up with something that compromises, good. But I have heard that MIP can be intense at times.
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Subtlety is the key ;o)
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