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Originally posted by polarpi
Actually, I have. Not saying that they didn't want the partying and social aspect as well, but to them, philanthropy was more important than being seen at the parties. I'm glad there are those women out there, and maybe if books were written about the "nicer" side of sorority life (instead of the negative stereotypes we all live with), the perception will change about what a best selling book should contain when it comes to Greek life.
However, that's just my honest, personal opinion and my .02 
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I guess I should have phrased it better, I'm not saying that girls join just for the partying or not at all. HB had a lot of girls that were not interested in doing the party scene, wouldnt even go to our own crush parties etc. So yes for girls like that, more productive aspects of a sorority would be more appealing. My point was when a PNM is torn between two houses I dont really think its the philathrophy that sells one house over the other, I would think (and hope) how well they got along with the sisters and if she could see herself in that house would be more important factors.