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			I consider settling to mean that you are accepting a sub-standard relationship just to have someone.  I don't think that what AKA_Monet is describing is 'settling'.  Settling means, he doesn't treat you as well as you deserve, or, he is a just a friend really, with no passion, or, it is just sex and no real friendship there, etc.  AKA_Monet describes being open minded about "your type", I think.  If there is not a good balance of passion, friendship, thoughtfulness and committment in a relationship, I think it is doomed. 
 
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