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Well according to social biology withholding sex is a mating strategy.
To give an example, lets say there was a girl that was fairly promiscious and known for having sex early and often . . . and lets say she met a guy she saw as a good potential long term prospect, potential husband material . . she might unconsciously decide NOT to sleep with him for some time.
The idea it to get him to establish a relationship by investing time and material into the relationship. It makes sense.
Personally, Day One of the Real Relationship starts for me AFTER I have had sex with the girl.
And the reason I say that is that I know that a lot of the stuff before that is artificial sexual tension. Me wanting to, but being denied.
Intercourse is a normal and important part of the relationship, Christain Vestal Virgins notwithstanding, So its only after that component is added that I can take stock and see how the path of the relationship is going.
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