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Originally posted by James
Winneythepoo, I don't know many people that would admit that even to themselves.
Self deception is a key component of most successful relationships.
And maybe it should be that way.
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I agree that most people wouldn't admit that they are settling even to themselves.
A lot of people in relationships think that they could do better until they see what and who is out there. The pickings are slim, and it's difficult to meet someone. Maybe the people in relationships are settling, maybe they are pragmatic, maybe they don't want to be alone, or maybe they are lazy. **shrug**
Personally, I am with someone I love who makes me happy. I don't know if he is the love of my life or if this will last forever. I enjoy being with him. When I hear nightmare stories from my "single and looking" friends, I appreciate him a lot more.
