I was in the same boat you were in. The top things I'd suggest to you are:
1) Keep that guest list DOWN and be FIRM about it. I don't care how many times your mom/dad says they need to invite their co-worker's boyfriend's niece to your wedding, keep it SMALL and SIMPLE.
2) Get married in an off-season. Depending on your geographical location, there may be a certain month or months when people get married most often. I was married in January, 2001, after the holiday crunch. We had a beautiful evening winter wedding indoors.
3) Get married on an off day. You'd be amazed at how much you can save by getting married on Friday night or Sunday afternoon. You'll save even more if you can avoid a weekend altogether.
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Originally posted by Sweet Deliverance:
I have been dating my boyfriend a year and a half. We are not quite "spring chickens" (29/30). We can't go anywhere without being asked When are y'all getting married?. People need to realize that it takes more than love to get married. It take$ money. We aren't officially engaged yet, but that will come later. My question is:
For those who are married or are getting married, what are some ways to financially prepare for the wedding day and beyond AND suggestions for an elegant church wedding on a slim budget?
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