No way!

I had the chance to "settle" a few years ago. I was with a great guy, who loved me very much, and just generally had everything going for him. Unfortunately, I just didn't have the same depth of feeling for him. I know we could have gotten married (he had proposed) and had a nice life together, but I wanted more.

Now I'm marrying a man that has all of those characteristics times 10, and who(m?) I love in return. I was afraid when I left guy #1 that I'd never find anybody like him again, but I'm glad I took my chances!