I agree Soror Moderator ZetaAce...most often, the issue begins between two or more individuals of the respective organizations that then becomes an issue between the organizations.
Therefore, the impetus is on us to teach our members that while it is impertive to have "'hood" for each other, it is even more critical that we first identify the cause of the problem...is it an organizational issues, or it is a personal problem that would best be solved outside the realm of the organization? Most times the answer is the latter, and it is best if the organzation maintain a respectable distance.
Soror Zeta3_2000 (I'm a tre too!), you already see, even though you still have a bit of sand behind the ears
this important fact (some folks never understand it, it seems), so you must ensure that others from your campus understand it as well, and the BGLO experience will be a lot better in the end for all...
SZL, Shela