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I have dated "down" and it has always been the problem for the guy. He would feel that I am cheating on him if I am at this event or another. Then if I would invite him to the place I am going, later he would say that we are talking about things that he would never talk about. We would be putting on show to isolate him.
I find this more in black men than other races. Why? It has to do with their pride. At least that is what I am told.
Now whether I will date or marry down, that is up in the air. I would rather be with someone who understands me. And understands the woman I am where I want to be. Alot of men can not get that. They want it one way but when your mind is open to all that is possible you can see an array of things that are possible.
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