A lot of that is body language, tone of voice, dress, and a certain "air" they give off.
For example, you can tell confidence on a person, it shows. Same with natural leaders.
But on another level: The definition of a leader is someone who has followers.
So in a sense, the only thing you need to be popular is to convince a group of people to like you.
Oooh ooh, I thought of a cool example. Did y'all see American Pie? Where Finch pays the girl to say he slept with her and give a good eview . .. and suddenly he was popular?
Or the movie, Can't Buy me Love, where he pays the girl to date him and suddenly is popular? Changed eveyrone's perception .. .
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To take it to a slightly deeper level, how do you think people manage to make others perceive them in a certain way if, if fact, they aren't actually that way?
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