After reading many of E. Lynn Harris's books the idea of falling in love with a man that may possibly be hiding his sexuality from me, posed some concern. I have met a few men that were bisexual and gay and alot of them aren't the stereotypical image most of us may imagine when we think of gay men. They aren't "flaming" as some may call it. I would think that if a man would be secure enough in his bisexuality that he would not keep it a secret from me, that he would respect me enough to allow me to make the choice of whether i want to continue seeing him or not. I would definitely not want to continue a relationship with a guy that was bisexual. I wouldn't want/expect him to deny apart of himself, not would I believe that he could do it. I would appreciate his honesty for telling me and not take it as a personal blow to who i am.
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