I think there is a problem honestly. If you don't normally run in the same social circles, don't have the same types of aspirations or have the same types of plans for the future that opens up a world of problems for the two of you. Love is a great thing but it can't overcome everything. I say this because money is often a problem for couples in general, add in couples who aren't necessarily ever going to make the same amount of money, and you have a timebomb waiting to go off. On top of the resentment that either one of you may develop towards each other for trying to better yourself or refusing to better yourself. it does work for SOME couples but it seems like one more thing that could cause problems for you.
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