The way I got through this was couseling. I dated a guy for 2 1/2 years when he broke up with me for an ADPi PNM!! If you have insurance to cover this...go! It is so wonderful to talk to a non-biased individual!! I went at school for free and it was the best thing I could have done...I waited a little to long to go (over a year)...but it worked in the long run!!! And no- I am not crazy!!!
PS: The woman ended up becoming an ADPi and after they broke up her and I ended up being friends! She ended up marrying one of his fraternity brothers! haha