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Originally posted by Love_Spell_6
HK74,
I've thought about it..and thought about it and just can't. BUt at the same time..its up to God...but I have expressed the desires of my heart to him...and I just pray he'll at least give me that LOL. Even with the finest men of any other race i.e. white or latino...I'm still not "really" attracted to them. Its just nothing like a brother in my opinion. I mean absolutely nothing. (Many white women agree with this  I know if I got with a white or latino dude..I'd be settling cause I'd feel I couldn't find a good brother. Maybe because I'm still 4 years away from 30 I am not as "pressed" and because I believe that who God has for me, is for me, regardless of what I do and think...so I could be singing a different tune after the age of 35 if i were still single...but i guess i'll have to see..
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Ditto, basically. Except I'm 30, and I'm still not THAT pressed. I, too, would feel like I was settling. And I'd always be ogling Black men and fantasizing about them. Oh, but I do that now.
Holla at me in 5 years and see if I've changed my mind, lol.
Now, I will date non-AA men of color, meaning, still a part of the diaspora. AFRICAN diaspora. Let's be clear.
