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Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
Ok, I hope no one gets offended or anything, but I have noticed that within this last two weeks, I have had a gaggle of melanin-challenged men approach me. Fine ones at that.
Seriously though. It has me  because this has never happened to me before. Are they reading this thread? *lol*
So my question to my single sistahs....would you consider "stepping outside the box"?
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HK74,
I've thought about it..and thought about it and just can't. BUt at the same time..its up to God...but I have expressed the desires of my heart to him...and I just pray he'll at least give me that LOL. Even with the finest men of any other race i.e. white or latino...I'm still not "really" attracted to them. Its just nothing like a brother in my opinion. I mean absolutely nothing. (Many white women agree with this
I know if I got with a white or latino dude..I'd be settling cause I'd feel I couldn't find a good brother. Maybe because I'm still 4 years away from 30 I am not as "pressed" and because I believe that who God has for me, is for me, regardless of what I do and think...so I could be singing a different tune after the age of 35 if i were still single...but i guess i'll have to see..