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Although I'm not single, I can tell you where NOT to be guys. Bars. There may be some women out there who met the man of their dreams at a bar but I've never met those women.
My friends in their twenties have met their significant others through mutual friends or co-workers. Also, get involved in some community organizations. This is another way to meet someone.
My friends have found that meeting someone through mutual friends/co-workers or through an organization that they're a member of (Kiwanis, fitness club, Church) that they'll meet someone they have more in common with. With a bar, many of times the only thing you have in common with the other person is....well....hooking up. That's not to say that a great relationship can't blossom with someone you met out at a bar but many times people go out to meet someone for just a one-night stand rather than an actual long-term relationship.
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Last edited by ZTAngel; 05-24-2004 at 09:46 AM.
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