[preciousjeni]

I'm definitely more casual than some of the posters here. I don't know that I've ever "dated" per se. I prefer to meet people and bring them around my friends to see how they interact. When you're in a group of people, it's sometimes easier to talk than when the pressure's on - one-on-one.

I also am the type of person who will just decline a number if I'm really not interested. If I am interested and you give me your number, I'll have the courtesy to call and, yes, leave a message. But, that's about all you get until you come correct and show me how you really treat a lady.

Now, I have to tell my issue. I tend to "meet" men/thugs/morons at liquor stores and gas stations. These undesirables like to follow me around asking things like, "Are you married?" "Do you have a man?" and like the rest of you, I've gotten
"Do you have a man?"
"Yes" (lying sometimes)
"Can I come see you sometime?
"No"
"What, your man don't let you have freeeiiinnz?"

My personal favorite was someone who amused me enough for me to STUPIDLY talk to him. I was much younger so please excuse me. Conversation:

Foo: "Aaaaay white girl"
(PJ ignores)
Foo: "SHAWTY!"
(PJ continues to ignore)
(PJ is followed into the store)
Foo: "Shawty, where you goin?"
PJ: "Go on, I don't want to talk to you"
Foo: "Hold up hold up Listen to me for a minute"
PJ: "What"
Foo: "My name Casino, it's nice to meet you" (followed by a fake and condescending handshake)
PJ: "What's your real name?"
Foo: "PYT"
(PJ remains silent)
Foo: "Ok, it's Jermaine."

Well, I found out later that his name wasn't even Jermaine. Lawd help these foos!!! Bless their hearts, they don't get it do they?