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Originally posted by Sistermadly
The thing is though - if you're abstaining, you aren't even supposed to be in a situation where someone might catch a glimpse of your underwear, let alone your goodies... at least, that's my interpretation of abstinence. "Everything but..." doesn't equal abstinence in my book.
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That's true, but even in the act of abstinence, I'm sure some people have a hard time controlling their hormones. There are those times that it gets a little hot and heavy for some people and unless they "snap" out of it, they could go all the way, or get really close. I mean, even claiming abstinence may not keep some people from pursuing a 'touchy-feely' mode. To me, abstinence means refraining from sexual intercourse or anything that may lead to it, but everyone may not agree. I'm just speaking on general terms here. When I made that statement, I was kind of being sarcastic, but again, I see what you're saying.