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My roommate is going through a similar thing as well. She was introduced to a guy who goes to V Tech by one of our sisters and they clicked instantly. She wants it to work but isn't sure if she can handle the long distance. And she is always saying how she hates telling people about him because she thinks they'll be like, "you have known this guy for 2 months yet you've only seen each other a couple of times? y'all can't be that serious." I tell her though that it doesn't matter what other people think and no one else can even understand unless they've been in a similar situation.
I was in a long distance relationship all 4 years of college (it was only 1.5 hours instead of 15 but it was still hard). You can make it work if you really want to. But it's going to take a lot of hard work on both your parts. Try writing him letters since you can't talk to him much on the phone and even though he's really busy, try to email each other every day even if it's just to say hi. In the end it will work out however it is supposed to but if you're really into this guy don't give up without a fight.
Rudey, what in the world are you talking about?
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