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Originally posted by steelepike
ok well i am not in the exact situation but a similar one.
I met this girl in Feb. and since then we have hung out alot and went on dates and such. Well this leads to the us being an official couple or whatever. We start the official relationship with about a month left in school in which i was going home for the summer and she was staying in town but leaving for italy for most of the summer. We both know that this is the closest we have ever been to another person and we both want to make it work through the summer.
well its been two weeks of me being home and she leaves for italy in 5? days. but we try and talk every day even if its just for a few minutes. and i am going to see her this weekend. And we have had a long conversation about how this is very tough not being together and not seeing each other but we both know that after this summer our relationship will have been tested through something. This makes us both really anxious because we have never done anything like this. ANd yes doubts are there but when we do talk it makes everything seem right.
This isn't advice but i am in a similar situation right now. Just keep listening to your gut many times it knows best. well you need any more listening or advice i could try.
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Yeah, your situation is quite similar to mine. It's funny what you are saying about trusting your gut....cuz mine has never been so at ease. I am exstremly confident that things will work out, yet when i stop to think aobut the situation and what most ppl would think of it.. I tend to scare myself, then i think that i may be just setting myself up. I guess you Just have to trust your heart. and anything worth having is worth the fight~ so i'm giving it my all right now!
But I do wish you the best of luck with your situation! I do realize how tuff it is!! Just spend as much time with her as possible before she leaves, that will give you the base to grow from and something to hold on to while she's away. and If you ever are board and need someone to chat to, feel free to give me an e-mail. Since we are in similar situations!~