One of the best ways you can handle your situation is to speak personally with members of the chapter through which you wish to join. More specifically, the Membership Coordinator will be able to answer your questions.
If, after exploring these options, you have other concerns, please feel free to e-mail me privately. Have a nice day!
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Sweet Deliverance's PHI-losophy:
"What you do or do not do today determines what you can or cannot do tomorrow."