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Originally posted by Shelacious
Valid point. Men like sex, homecooked meals, their chores done for them, and toys they like bought for them. While some men do like "romantic" things like cards, flowers, etc., they are in the minority.
Men do the romantic stuff because WE like the romantic stuff.
Have you talked to him about your needs? Maybe, as someone else pointed out, maybe he thinks he doesn't "need" to do romantic things for you anymore because now you know he loves you. Maybe he still feels he's doing things to show he cares, but in a different package than you expect or want?
Talk to him and let him know that you know that he needs great sex, a pot roast and tickets to the hockey game to feel loved and fulfilled, and you need gebera daisys, a love note left on the kitchen fridge and a "thinking of you" card from time to time to feel the same.
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very valid points.
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Maybe he still feels he's doing things to show he cares, but in a different package than you expect or want?
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^ that is probably right on the money.
I'll retract 80% of what I said to agree with that statement
